Don't Carry Someone else's mess

I realize that the issues I have been having as far as with myself is because I'm CARRYING other people's mess.

The father of my child stole something from me that I was saving for our daughter and gave it to another chick.

This hurt me because I felt like he did this to her. I have been carrying this pain and turning it on myself. Trying to think if I had done this or been that it would not have happened.

But, I can't carry that.

I didn't do anything something was done to me.

I can not carry that I have to get over and move on with my life. I have been on this I'm never talking to him again stuff. But, as I see things clearly I realized that I need to tell him that.

I need to tell him that I will no longer carry the things he has done to me. Its time for him to carry them for himself.